Wednesday 27 February 2013
Monday 25 February 2013
DENRELE WRITES LOVE NOTE TO GOLDIE
so...here i am starring at my mini laptop thinking of the right words to type... errrr, i have decided to celebrate Goldie's life because i am so sure she is smiling down on us, whether we choose to speak positively or negatively about her, whether we admit it or not, she has made an impact on us and we would never ever forget her.
i saw my friend Efetommy's bbm status and went to his blog to read this heart felt,extremely emotional tribute Denrele wrote to Goldie, i call it a love note because such is what a real friend can only write to another friend he or she was in love with and totally adored, in my books that is what real friendship is all about.
Enough said.... Here it goes.......
My super star friend sways away and I stand watching till she fades on the horizon and someone at my side says “she’s gone”…Gone where?
Gone from my sight, that is all. She is just as gorgeous now as when last I saw her. Her slightly disappearing figure and total loss from my sight is in me, not in her.
And just at that moment, when someone at my side says she’s gone, there are others who are watching her coming over their horizon and other voices take up a glad shout – There she comes! That is what dying is – an horizon and just the limit of our sight.
My lifeline, my lexicon, therapist and support system…we have known lots of pleasure, at times endured ppai, we have lived in the sunshine and walked in the rain. I had acute malaria (was shaking terribly) but performed “skibobo” with you at the Industry Night and Loud&Proud show, I sprained my ankle but still shot your three videos in a row in S/A.
I left my family house and moved in with you and your family right after all the Big Brother Africa madness, I did all the damage control…
I fought every organizer simply cos I wanted you on the bill with me and split my show earnings with you. I dragged you to the American Embassy even if it meant I had to get up at 4am. I endured negative criticism because shallow minds couldn’t comprehend your brand essence – I started wearing block heels (you got me the most fabulous pair of Jeffrey Campbells) and I damned the consequences. I recorded the reality show “Tru Friendship” with you because you went on and on about it and I wanted to please you.
I have been your fierce-alter ego in all your videos, I have fought your fights, endured countless eccentric P.As with you…I can go on and on and this is how you leave me? You chose an eternal sleep over a fabulous life with me? Lest I forget, I ate the entire box of birthday chocolates Bola sent to you!
Phew, I can’t type anymore, I’m playing “Good To Me” (always disturbed you to release that song) and my notepad is a misty mass of my never ending tears. So sad when people who give you the best memories, become a memory!
The Goldie I knew, despite your success and worldwide recognition, still wondered, “Am I good enough?” “Am I pretty enough?” “Will they like me?” It was this burden that made you great…And that made you stumble in the end.
Goldie if you can hear me now, you weren’t good just good enough – You were abso-frigging-lutely GREAT! You sang the whole damn song without a band- you made the picture of a showbiz star look so perfect!
Your parting has left a void, but I will fit it with remembered joy. A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss and oh yes, these things I too will miss. Even though we are separated and for a time apart, I am not alone cos you’re forever in my heart. I will move mountains to continue your legacy, I will crash ceilings to spread your good works, I will break barriers to sell your “market” but above all, I will cherish the awesome times we spent together…You will forever be my source of infinity!
We wore the same shoe size and had the same body proportions. You made me start strutting lashes and recall I wore that black dress of yours you never got to wear? No masterpiece can ever match your face! To everyone reading this piece, let my dear friend rest in peace! Speak no evil about her, she was too good to be true!
I can hear you say to me…Mbirikoko, do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there, I do not sleep, Do not stand at my grave and cry…I am not there, I did not die!
Denrele Edun
i saw my friend Efetommy's bbm status and went to his blog to read this heart felt,extremely emotional tribute Denrele wrote to Goldie, i call it a love note because such is what a real friend can only write to another friend he or she was in love with and totally adored, in my books that is what real friendship is all about.
Enough said.... Here it goes.......
My super star friend sways away and I stand watching till she fades on the horizon and someone at my side says “she’s gone”…Gone where?
Gone from my sight, that is all. She is just as gorgeous now as when last I saw her. Her slightly disappearing figure and total loss from my sight is in me, not in her.
And just at that moment, when someone at my side says she’s gone, there are others who are watching her coming over their horizon and other voices take up a glad shout – There she comes! That is what dying is – an horizon and just the limit of our sight.
My lifeline, my lexicon, therapist and support system…we have known lots of pleasure, at times endured ppai, we have lived in the sunshine and walked in the rain. I had acute malaria (was shaking terribly) but performed “skibobo” with you at the Industry Night and Loud&Proud show, I sprained my ankle but still shot your three videos in a row in S/A.
I left my family house and moved in with you and your family right after all the Big Brother Africa madness, I did all the damage control…
I fought every organizer simply cos I wanted you on the bill with me and split my show earnings with you. I dragged you to the American Embassy even if it meant I had to get up at 4am. I endured negative criticism because shallow minds couldn’t comprehend your brand essence – I started wearing block heels (you got me the most fabulous pair of Jeffrey Campbells) and I damned the consequences. I recorded the reality show “Tru Friendship” with you because you went on and on about it and I wanted to please you.
I have been your fierce-alter ego in all your videos, I have fought your fights, endured countless eccentric P.As with you…I can go on and on and this is how you leave me? You chose an eternal sleep over a fabulous life with me? Lest I forget, I ate the entire box of birthday chocolates Bola sent to you!
Phew, I can’t type anymore, I’m playing “Good To Me” (always disturbed you to release that song) and my notepad is a misty mass of my never ending tears. So sad when people who give you the best memories, become a memory!
The Goldie I knew, despite your success and worldwide recognition, still wondered, “Am I good enough?” “Am I pretty enough?” “Will they like me?” It was this burden that made you great…And that made you stumble in the end.
Goldie if you can hear me now, you weren’t good just good enough – You were abso-frigging-lutely GREAT! You sang the whole damn song without a band- you made the picture of a showbiz star look so perfect!
Your parting has left a void, but I will fit it with remembered joy. A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss and oh yes, these things I too will miss. Even though we are separated and for a time apart, I am not alone cos you’re forever in my heart. I will move mountains to continue your legacy, I will crash ceilings to spread your good works, I will break barriers to sell your “market” but above all, I will cherish the awesome times we spent together…You will forever be my source of infinity!
We wore the same shoe size and had the same body proportions. You made me start strutting lashes and recall I wore that black dress of yours you never got to wear? No masterpiece can ever match your face! To everyone reading this piece, let my dear friend rest in peace! Speak no evil about her, she was too good to be true!
I can hear you say to me…Mbirikoko, do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there, I do not sleep, Do not stand at my grave and cry…I am not there, I did not die!
Denrele Edun
NEW YORK FASHION WEEK 2013 PRESENTS AFRICAN FASHION ICONS
New york fashion week came to an end a week ago, but i need to share with you some of the great highlights for me.
Indeed Nigerian and African fashion has gone global, from Tiffany Amber, jewel by Lisa, Maki oh, Ozwald Boateng and the likes..... I present to you African fashion icons at the New york fashion week 2013.
Enjoy
Indeed Nigerian and African fashion has gone global, from Tiffany Amber, jewel by Lisa, Maki oh, Ozwald Boateng and the likes..... I present to you African fashion icons at the New york fashion week 2013.
Enjoy
Friday 22 February 2013
POWER DRESSING FROM THE RUNWAY TO YOUR CLOSET
The New York runways last week embraced a fresh update with suits coming
this fall. This season’s menswear-inspired look goes feminine, it’s also edgy and sexy. With
a true ode to the art of construction, various designers used peplum
hems combined with mini skirts and work-ready blazers to make any woman
feel powerful in her own clothes. To complete the look, the new type of
power dressing also demands cinching your waist with a leather belt and
donning an oversized clutch or understated handbag.
Here are some of our favorite suits from New York Fashion Week, you get some fresh ideas from these suits to fit your personal style.
HAIR BUNNIES BY MARYANNE ALABI
Maryanne Alabi, A wardrobe consultant,fashion stylist and fashion and style editor, who is popularly known as Mayreejay, formally launches her hair accessories line called “BUNNIES BY MARY”.
The Bunnies are my first collection of hair accessories, i hope you love them as much as i loved making them specially for you.
The BUNNY has become somewhat of a signature style for the known stylist who has worked on varied shoots, one of which had Nollywood’s favourite princess, Genevieve Nnaji wearing the cutest Orange Bunny. Empire Mates Entertainment’s first lady Niyiola also got an apt leopard ‘BUNNY treatment’ in a photoshoot styled by Maryanne.
The BUNNY is steadily having a cult following which is no surprise as it’s one of the cutest hair coverings which compliments most outfits especially on days when you just can’t find something to do with your hair.
The “BUNNY” comes in various colours and fabrics(seasonal) and it is a one size fits all, easy to wear and can be worn even on a good hair day.
To order or buy a bunny please contact Maryanne on 08023870031 or email maryannealabi@yahoo.com.
credits:
Photography: Obi somto
Makeup: christine creations
Model: Gbemi shotade.
Designer: Maryanne Alabi
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